Bori

Korea (2018) Dir. Kim Jin-yu

Feeling on the outside of your family is something many of us experience at least once in our lives, usually because of our own teenage stroppiness rebelling against the guidance of our parents. Sometimes, circumstances might be different and feelings of exclusion are nobody’s fault.

Eleven year-old Na Bo-ri (Kim Ah-song) is a perky, upbeat young girl in a loving family, yet she harbours slight resentment towards her younger brother Jung-woo (Lee Rin-Ha) for the attention he receives from their parents (Kwak Jin-seok and Heo Ji-Na). This isn’t a case of preferential treatment – Bo-ri is the only member of the family who isn’t deaf, therefore is heavily relied upon by them.

During a trip to the fireworks festival, Bo-ri is separated from her family and with no means to contact them is left to turn to the police for help where they are eventually reunited. This experience not only shakes her up but also makes Bo-ri realise not being deaf sets her apart from the rest of the family, so she prays each day that she loses her hearing. With the encouragement of her friend Eun-Jeong (Hwang Yoo Rim) embarks on a reckless mission to damage her hearing.

Bori reads like a perversely distorted tale of a callow mind looking to reconcile a problem via extreme measures, but is in fact a touching, coming-of-age story of a familial bond which is stronger than it looks, hampered by rather different set of communication issues. Even with this premise, the idea that deafness is treated as a tragedy is not on director Kim Jin-yu’s agenda, nor is trying to engender sympathy for the deaf through wrought melodrama.

Kim actually leaves the few scenes of heartless ignorance until later in the film, clearly not considering it a priority in his narrative prior to this, making them harder to watch. Dictated by the development of Bo-ri’s plight to make herself deaf they only arise at this point because there was no need before hand, but it doesn’t mean this issue isn’t swept under the carpet just because this is a wholesome film with something important to inculcate.

Along with two very different films featuring deaf people, the Ukraine’s The Tribe and France’s La Famille Bélier – the latter closer to Bori than the former – Kim has chosen to make this about the hearing impaired yet showing them as fully functional people like you and me despite their condition. The twist is that he uses Bo-ri as his conduit from both sides of the hearing spectrum to explore the high and lows of being deaf.

The Na family are just like any other insofar as being loving and close, with friends in the community, and the father working a job as a fisherman. Their only difference is that they communicate via sign language, whilst Bo-ri is the bridge between their silence and the outside world. It is because of this Bo-ri feels she is missing out the fun Jung-woo is allowed to have whilst she adopts the role of pseudo-housekeeper, making her wiser beyond her years.

Jung-woo doesn’t have it all good though – he may be the best football player in his year but his impairment means he is relegated the subs bench since he can’t hear the other players. He also feels left out of conversations with his friends thus spends more time alone, explaining why he cherishes his family’s company so much. It would appear the Na family are alone with this condition hence the lack of special school for Jung-woo.

When Eun-Jeong’s idea of playing music via MP3 player at full volume fails to do any damage Bo-ri sees a TV report on a diver whose eardrums burst and promptly throws herself into the sea. Luckily, dad was fishing nearby and saved Bo-ri but her stunt seems to have done the trick and she can no longer hear. Her mother is distraught and takes a while to acclimatise to this change; her father says deaf or not, Bo-ri is still his daughter, and Jung-woo misses the food Bo-ri used to order for them.

No, Jung-woo is not being heartless because Bo-ri misses the same thing, plus he is much younger so he would rationalise things differently, but instead of reaping the benefits of being closer to her family, Bo-ri has to learn to navigate the world as they do as well as sacrifice many important things in her life. Was it worth it? Bo-ri begins to wonder and constantly questions her family as to whether they are happy now she is like them, and is shocked by her mother’s response.

Perspective is the key to both the film and Bo-ri’s life affirming journey, one which is complicated in many different ways which I won’t spoil here, though it isn’t a huge shock but is handled in a way that is intelligent, compassionate, sincere, yet provocative. Kim wants us to understand what life is like without being able to hear – as I’ve mentioned many times on this site my own hearing is declining though I am far from being deaf –  but refuses to be didactic by positing the family as helpless victims.

Instead, the message is deaf or not, it doesn’t matter nor does it make anybody any less of a person. Curiously, only Kwak Jin-seok is an established actor therefore not actually deaf, but I assume as first timers, Heo Ji-Na and Lee Rin-Ha are genuinely impaired. However, Kim Ah-song, also making her debut, deserves every plaudit coming to her, not just for her wonderful performance as Bo-ri but for taking on so much in this role, like learning sign language, at such a young age.

More films like Bori need to be made – not just to raise awareness about disabilities but also to portray the impaired in a positive light. A truly delightful, heart-warming, and powerfully empathetic opus, this is one hell of a debut for Kim Jin-yu.

4 thoughts on “Bori

  1. Wow, this is one heck of a strong premise. I have always said when it comes to making a choice between losing sight or hearing, I would choose hearing. Not that I would want to lose either one of those, but I can’t imagine being blind😢
    I love that this film doesn’t make it overly dramatic but just puts everything in a positive light. As a positive person myself, I quite like that message! Terrific review, for what seems like an amazing film!😊

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    1. Thanks! It is such a lovely film and the script surprises by not following the paths you think it might. BTW – it is also on you-know-where so you have no excuse not to watch it! 😛

      As for not being able to hear, it is not pleasant and causes a lot of problems though I am far more fortunate than many. using a phone is out as my hearing aids are clunky NHS ones that aren’t compatible with phones so having to ask people to repeat themselves or speak louder tends to make them angry. Social events as well are a nuisance if the acoustics of a building aren’t right and of course, watching TV and films where there are no subtitles is a huge issue for a film buff like me.

      Not to mention I have to wear glasses more and more now rather than just for using the PC, losing these senses is not fun and again, whilst I’m not going to go blind, I can sympathise with those that are or in later stages of vision loss.

      It really can’t be understated how much we take them for granted.

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      1. Haha, I’ve actually already been to the you know who site. It does look very enticing I have to admit😅😅 We’ll see. I have a couple of things I need to finish before this week is over, and then I’ll see about checking that out.
        I think a lot of people seem to take things for granted when they don’t have any kind of impairment, and they don’t know how fortunate they truly are. I can definitely understand that about the sound and films. I just wish more things would come with subtitles. I hate it when I purchase an import dvd and there are no English subtitles. I can understand English fine, but in some films the dialogue is either with accents or so soft you can’t even hear what is being said😢
        Fingers crossed that will happen more! Maybe we should start a petition for this!😊

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      2. This is why I get so frustrated when UK distributors of foreign language films don’t subtitle any English dialogue – not just because of the whispering but accents also play a huge part in making the dialogue hard to understand too! 😡

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